{"id":200005,"date":"2026-07-14T11:00:53","date_gmt":"2026-07-14T09:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/luxus-plus.com\/?p=200005"},"modified":"2026-07-14T11:53:25","modified_gmt":"2026-07-14T09:53:25","slug":"luxus-magazine-holidays-with-friends-or-family-the-almost-foolproof-survival-guide-to-coming-home-tanned-and-still-on-good-terms","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/luxus-plus.com\/en\/luxus-magazine-holidays-with-friends-or-family-the-almost-foolproof-survival-guide-to-coming-home-tanned-and-still-on-good-terms\/","title":{"rendered":"[LUXUS MAGAZINE] Holidays with friends or family: the (almost) foolproof survival guide to coming home tanned\u2026 and still on good terms"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Group holidays promise unforgettable memories. They also bring with them a few heated debates about washing up, the budget or what time to get up. According to the Holiday Clashometer unveiled by Skyscanner, two in three French people have already experienced frustration or conflict during a group holiday. A study analysed by psychologist Alicia Sandon and humorously illustrated by author Margaux Motin, who points out that behind minor arguments often lie major misunderstandings.<\/h4>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For <b>Marie-Faure Ambroise<\/b>, <b>CEO of <i>Beau Voyage<\/i><\/b> and an author specializing in family vacations, these minor friction points are a natural part of any group vacation. \u201c<b>We\u2019ve all experienced that moment on a group vacation when we eat breakfast in silence so as not to wake up our friends who don\u2019t get up until noon.<\/b> \u201d A familiar scene that illustrates these small daily misalignments, which are often more revealing than major conflicts.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Even before setting off, everyone is already speaking a different language<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>At <b>Skyscanner<\/b>, we\u2019ve had a bit of fun decoding the real language of holidays thanks to the <b>Holiday Clashometer<\/b>, a survey conducted with OnePoll among 1,000 French people.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The results are a real treat. When someone says: <i>\u201cI\u2019m flexible!\u201d<\/i>, they often mean: <i>\u201cI just hope we don\u2019t go over my budget.\u201d<\/i> The person who offers a very diplomatic <i>\u201cWe\u2019ll do whatever you want\u201d<\/i> is actually hoping that someone will finally ask for their opinion. As for the hero who announces: <i>\u201cI can sort out the bookings\u201d<\/i>, what they\u2019re really thinking is: <em>\u201cNot again&#8230; \u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>These little discrepancies, brought to life with the mischievous touch of <b>Margaux Motin<\/b>, set the tone: holidays often begin with a series of unspoken assumptions.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>The real invisible baggage? Everyone\u2019s expectations<\/h2>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The <b>Skyscanner<\/b> study reveals that more than one in four French people believe a group trip has already strained an important relationship. Ten per cent even admit to having damaged a friendship.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For <b>Alicia Sandon<\/b>, the problem arises long before the suitcases are packed : \u201cHolidays often begin with a collective misunderstanding. We\u2019ve all said yes to the same thing, but everyone sets off on the trip they\u2019ve imagined in their own head. Not necessarily the same one. \u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/magazine.luxus-plus.com\/en\/?p=43763&amp;preview=true\">Click here to read the full article<\/a> on Luxus Magazine.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Featured photo : \u00a9 Margaux Mottin for Skyscanner<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Group holidays promise unforgettable memories. They also bring with them a few heated debates about washing up, the budget or what time to get up. 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